It was a typical night I suppose. I had just finished doing a ton of laundry and my almost 18 month old was watching Frozen in Spanish, or so I thought. A neighbor came to our door and as I peeked around the corner I could see the sliding door was open. One of the dogs must have gotten out I thought. Worse. My daughter had gotten out. They had spotted her “running down the street.” Now we live in a trailer park so it’s not that kind of street, but none the less it was scary. I was relieved and thankful that my neighbors were outside having a fire and had quickly spotted her, but also felt so stupid for allowing something like that to happen. I knew God was watching out for us. Life is so precious. Just this week I sobbed as I read of a 3 year old that was hit by a truck and killed. Playing frisbee one moment, gone the next. His parents didn’t get a chance to “learn a lesson” or be thankful nothing worse happened. The worst did happen. What if that had been me tonight? How could I have moved on, or forgiven myself. Life is so so precious.
I contemplated telling my mother who I live with about what had happened. I wasn’t going to as I knew more likely then not she would say something to make me feel worse then I already did, and I was right. At first she wasn’t so bad, and even almost sympathized with me, but later she had to sneak in one remark that reminded me how I never want to make my daughter feel. What she said wasn’t even that big of a deal, but it was how she made me feel. It’s hard being a young adult and living with your parents. They’re use to seeing you as this person that doesn’t know any better and constantly needs to be taught a lesson, and I do have many lessons that are yet to be learned, but being lectured or put down is not the best way to learn them. My mom isn’t perfect and I’m not either, but when we know better, we do better. My moms mistakes as a parent have helped me know better, and I hope my mistakes will help my daughter know and do better too.
Tonight was scary and it was yet another reminder of how blessed I am and how quickly it could be taken away. I thank The Lord for every day he has blessed me with and every second chance He has ever granted me.